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Brené Brown on Empathy

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What is the best way to ease someone's pain and suffering? In this beautifully animated RSA Short, Dr Brené Brown reminds us that we can only create a genuine empathic connection if we are brave enough to really get in touch with our own fragilities. Voice: Dr Brené Brown Animation: Katy Davis (AKA Gobblynne) www.gobblynne.com Production and Editing: Al Francis-Sears and Abi Stephenson Watch Dr Brené Brown's full talk 'The Power of Vulnerability' here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sXSjc-pbXk4 Dr Brené Brown is a research professor and best-selling author of "Daring Greatly: How the Courage to be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent and Lead" (Penguin Portfolio, 2013). She has spent the past decade studying vulnerability, courage, worthiness, and shame. Find out more about the RSA: http://www.thersa.org Follow the RSA on Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/thersaorg Like the RSA on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/thersaorg
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Tania Sickman (2 дня назад)
I love this
Steven Kimber (7 дней назад)
That buck is a jerk. ;)
Diana Hill (21 день назад)
Just so to the point - brilliant
keever czlapinski (23 дня назад)
george Pavloudis (24 дня назад)
Ιn Greek language these words have another meaning. This is a common phenomenon. Just mention it for those who know Greek: Η λέξη εμπάθεια (από το αρχαίο εμπαθής) είναι μια ελληνιστική λέξη που σήμαινε αρχικά «το έντονο πάθος» για να εξελιχθεί στη σημασία «κακότητα, προκατειλημμένη αρνητική ή εχθρική στάση». Η λέξη ελήφθη από την Αγγλική ως empathy για να δηλώσει «τη συμμετοχή στο πάθος, σ’ αυτό που παθαίνει κάποιος και υποφέρει, στη δυστυχία τού άλλου μέχρι πλήρους ταυτίσεως» και, τελικά, «τη συμπάθεια, τη συμπόνια». Έφτασε δηλ. να δηλώνει το ακριβώς αντίθετο τής ελληνικής λέξης εμπάθεια ! Διαφορετικά εξελίχθηκε η ομόρριζη ελληνική λέξη συμπάθεια, η οποία πέρασε επίσης στην Αγγλική (μέσω τής Λατινικής) ως sympathy. Κι αυτή δήλωσε «την εναρμόνιση με τα συναισθήματα κάποιου άλλου» για να φτάσει τελικά και στη σημασία «συλλυπητήρια» ως έκφραση «τής συμμετοχής στη λύπη, στο πένθος, στην ατυχία τού άλλου».
Lucy Coleman (27 дней назад)
Hmmm... No want a sandwich?
King Nandi (27 дней назад)
you guys have a great concept going. Thank you for sharing this
bachi yan (1 месяц назад)
*Empathy is a vulnerable choice...* *Empathy is feeling with people.* In order to ease someone's pain and suffering, one more person have to feel the pain and suffering?
Jason Kucherawy (1 месяц назад)
"Rarely can a response make something better. What makes something better is connection."
Troy C (1 месяц назад)
I'm not criticizing this video, I think her work is great. My point of view is I've done these 'at least' replies before in the past, but not in the condescending kind of tone used here, not because I'm not being empathetic, but because I will try and say anything to help someone in need.
Graciela Alfonso (1 месяц назад)
Claro y preciso!
Patricia Mills (1 месяц назад)
Empathy is when one can understand or even feel what another may be feeling. Trying to understand another's prospective and not judging are some of the ways we can show empathy. When one is empathetic they would not use words like at least. We all should become a little more empathetic.
The Dishonored Coward (1 месяц назад)
I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! I Don't Want Sympathy I Want Empathy! Please forgive the spammed wall of shouting. I am doing it to try to feel better after something terrible has happened and I can't find the privacy to shout without someone hearing me due to the current population.
aaron kastelic (1 месяц назад)
Enjoy! Kick back and remember to drop bi thinkingwhiledrinkingdotorg
עוז אפטקר (2 месяца назад)
Thank you!
medoma1000 (2 месяца назад)
I think that is wrong. Empathy is describing the connection to the person (Me --> Person) and sympathy is describing it the other way around. (Person --> Me) If i am empathic, I will appeal sympathic to the person.
Hortense Dandridge (2 месяца назад)
I loved this
EklectiK Official (2 месяца назад)
Where did this woman get her definition of sympathy? She puts sympathy and empathy at odds with each other when they are not. Sympathy means feeling what your friend is feeling, the root word (sym) also found in symbiotic relationships, means that you feel together. It means you are sad because your friend is sad. Empathy means you understand the feelings of the other person, but you can't relate, you are not feeling what they are feeling but you "get it". Stop trying to change the language.
EklectiK Official (2 месяца назад)
Ryuuken24 (2 месяца назад)
Religious assholes don't learn from this simple idea. Keep bombing Syria until they learn magic ain't real.
NewWave Productions (2 месяца назад)
Please take a sec to look at my short film "UNARMED". This film is about the effects POLICE BRUTALITY can have on a family. I poured my heart & soul into this film and you would literally make my DREAMS COME TRUE by watching and giving feedback. I am a student filmmaker and I literally went broke to produce this film! All feedback is wanted, Thanks!!!
MsSimpleMovies (2 месяца назад)
Empathy is very important in marriage and parenting. At least three times a day I'll need to take my ego out of a situation/conflict and listen for what's really going on. Then, to convey that they're not alone, and I get it, and accept them. Then to suggest a next step (which isn't always helpful, actually). It's exhausting, but it makes a more intimate family.
Daniela Berdía Pfeifer (3 месяца назад)
I don't agree with this examples. I feel empathy and sympathy should go together. If I'm in a hole, yes, I'd hope someone would listen and feel with me, but then I definitely need someone to say "hey, let's go get a sandwich", because we can't both be in the hole forever. P.S. I don't know what the lady in the first animation was drinking, but it was definitely not an espresso. Did you see her eyes? LOL
Lee Lesemann (3 месяца назад)
excellent summary !
Terry Luke (3 месяца назад)
Great, love it, a question does this only apply to personal relationships or also in business? What would 'Tough empathy' as often coined in terms of leadership look like in this animation, how often do leaders really know what someone needs as compared to what they want?
Ian Maclean (3 месяца назад)
I like empathy
Norris Bennett (3 месяца назад)
nice video
ribbaribbahey (3 месяца назад)
This is wrong. I guess the two words lost their true meaning when they got borrowed from latin languages into english. The words' roots may be greek, but they most likely got into english through french. In fact both the feelings mentioned in the video are pretty good in their own terms. What those words ACTUALLY mean: Empathy: picking up other people's moods *without* use of explanations. Example: you *just* see a sad person, you get sad too. Sympathy: being able to picture (and share) one's feelings after being told. Example: you see your friend sad, you ask what happened. Only after your friend explains to you the fact, you can relate. One of the core differences is that with sympathy you often picture the fact happening to yourself, and also that with empathy you don't need to know what happened. Additionaly, it's thought that you are born with a fixed level of the empathy, but you can work on your simpathy. As you can see, the antler guy has nothing to do with neither term, unlike like the authors want you to think. I get the vibe that this video is yet another bullshit for the ''I'm-more-sensible-than-you''-people. Please thumb this comment up so people actually learn something useful from the video.
Izaal Yew (3 месяца назад)
do you want a sandwich
Stephanie Barinas (3 месяца назад)
One of my favorite videos of all time.. Really.
孙睿 (3 месяца назад)
Very well said.
wipyramidmodel (3 месяца назад)
This is so beautifully done. Thank you.
Bryce Tyson (4 месяца назад)
I love this.
Ella De Jong (4 месяца назад)
I will sure use this in my training course ' Energizing Communication with troubled youth ' , it's great, thank you! Empathy - genuineness - timing - trust - humor : all very important ! elladejong.com
Sam G (4 месяца назад)
S LT (4 месяца назад)
What is compassion then
Kraken King (4 месяца назад)
That was very helpful
kb99914 (4 месяца назад)
so meaningful to me
Fable to Grave (4 месяца назад)
This was amazing 😆😱😂
Dead Man (4 месяца назад)
Want a sandwich? LOL
MinistryMuzik (4 месяца назад)
Christian hip hop music really speaks to me...
Lionssky Blue (4 месяца назад)
The most powerful bit is the bit about 'connection', it's what we all seek, and so many of us are starved of
Ruth Frankenfield (4 месяца назад)
Here's the video I shared during the staff meeting today.
Funtastic K9 Training (4 месяца назад)
Anymore videos like this from Rene Brown? GREAT GREAT VIDEO.
xXjuniorXx (4 месяца назад)
xXjuniorXx (4 месяца назад)
Hello students
Phuong Dam (4 месяца назад)
You wanna sandwich?(Chews loudly)
Matrika Z. (5 месяцев назад)
You hit it on the head. That’s how we empaths work....
Double Moon (5 месяцев назад)
Marisa C (5 месяцев назад)
Yes yes yes!
Takeharu Kato (5 месяцев назад)
EggsAre Gross (5 месяцев назад)
Who else is here from The Pop Song Profesor?
brendabbix64 (5 месяцев назад)
Enlightening. Makes perfect sense.
CoolDude Productions (5 месяцев назад)
I actually think this is a bad video. It makes sympathy a bad word, but by current definitions, it's not. In fact, empathy is a new word, stemming from sympathy. For example, the word sympathy actually means to feel sorry, have pity, and relate to another emotionally. Empathy is understanding what someone has gone thru. I'm a nerd so let's take Snape from the Harry Potter series for example. I can empathize with Snape. He deals with unrequited love and being bullied. I understand and can put myself in those shoes because I truly understand the feelings of both unrequited love and being bullied, but I find that Snape still makes horrible choices, becoming a terrorist, stalker, and being a mean bitter man. Therefore I do not Sympathise with him. I feel like this video gives a negative thing the wrong definition, sympathy. Both sympathy and Empathy are good, but what this video describes as sympathy has NOTHING to do with its actual definition. Liberties are there to make take it and redefine it. So shame on you for confusing people.​
Serenity Brown (5 месяцев назад)
"Ugh no.... You wanna sandwich
no Johnson (5 месяцев назад)
Not sympathy.
Joseph Lee (5 месяцев назад)
So many great comments here. I'm reminded of a scene in the movie Inside Out where Joy is constantly trying to make people joyful by telling them to ignore the bad while Sadness just sits, listens, and seemingly commiserates with others. I tend to interpret sympathy as trying to tell people to get out of their dark world and come join me in my beautiful world while empathy is withholding judgment and simply be there for them, for better or for worse. The final words in the video were the most powerful--rarely does a response make something better; what makes something better is connection.
Jennifer Morgan Dearinger (5 месяцев назад)
Empathy is such an important skill that I think it should be required curriculum in schooling/home schooling.
Ben Black (5 месяцев назад)
So beautiful :)
Riza Dragnel (5 месяцев назад)
that moose threw mean shade lmao
Alessandro Speranza (5 месяцев назад)
It's really a great animation and exactly what happened to me
Father Man (5 месяцев назад)
What she saying is sympathy is pity. Sympathy is when you actually have been through the same situation as the other person, and empathy is putting yourself in someone else's shoes, but still feeling with them
Collins Ongaya (5 месяцев назад)
I always get these mixed up.
Gabriel Lewis (6 месяцев назад)
I really enjoy this. Reminds me of what I need to be more of to others on a daily basis
Acidgurkerl (6 месяцев назад)
"I don't even know what to say right now, I'm just so glad you told me." Literally the thing I say to everyone who opens up to me (mostly in German, however). And I mean it that way, rarely can I do something about the issue, but I can always just be "there".
Amy Emery (6 месяцев назад)
Beautiful ❤️
Deborah-Ann Desouza (6 месяцев назад)
One of the best short clips on Empathy and Sympathy.  Very impactful.  This video is an excellent training tool!
Britney Peters (6 месяцев назад)
This video was great! Very inspiring! Thank you for posting this.
knife maker (6 месяцев назад)
empathy is a choice? clearly you are not an empath.
ippos_khloros (6 месяцев назад)
"recognize their perspective as their truth" Please back up the idea that having empathy requires accepting pithy expressions of postmodern epistemolgy which have only recently come into vogue?
garage13 (6 месяцев назад)
4 qualities - perspective taking - staying out of judgment - recognising emotion in other people - communicating that recognition of emotion
MountainViewFor2 (6 месяцев назад)
She’s wonderful. The words ring true. And the animations bring it to life.
dayan khalid (6 месяцев назад)
Good to learn about the facts🤗
Loli Sierra (6 месяцев назад)
Loved the drawings, and when the 2 raining clouds got together and turned into a heart, it is awesome!
Jacqueline de Wet (6 месяцев назад)
Absolutely accurate, thank you
Gloria Rivera (6 месяцев назад)
great information
Tamar- cita (6 месяцев назад)
To one of the most empathetic people I know ❤️
IsabellaGraceS (6 месяцев назад)
My therapist showed me this video when we were talking about my parents.
Carole Morey (6 месяцев назад)
Short but powerful!
Becky Whitted (7 месяцев назад)
This was a powerful addition to training I conducted on emotional intelligence. A couple of people that really lacked empathy commented 'I get it now'. Very powerful 2:53 minute video. P.S. I love the Blame video as well.
Dude Ster (7 месяцев назад)
This is subjective; personally, I'd prefer sympathy for my issues.
Julia (7 месяцев назад)
my advisor just sent me this :) thanks
Sara Farrell (7 месяцев назад)
Love this! And I do hate it when people try to silver-line my problems!!!!
silvana todeschini (7 месяцев назад)
da guardare
eobo1 (7 месяцев назад)
fantastic! ty!
Solar Soul (7 месяцев назад)
3 minutes of suffering - OK
Gioia Jiles (7 месяцев назад)
I want more!! This was amazing!!
Fresy Saracho (7 месяцев назад)
AD Vo (7 месяцев назад)
Really nice explanation from emotional level to visible one- love it
BabySteps5776 (7 месяцев назад)
0:54 Today I felt horrible. I went to class feeling extremely sad and it only got worst as the day went on. I was constantly holding back tears while in my classes and when I went to the final class, my prof showed us this video. At that moment, I was feeling okay, thinking that this short video was a chance to take a break and get my mind off of things. But then this particular moment in the video happened and a whole wave of sadness hit me. It seems completely random an silly but she described what I felt like in a few words and I almost broke down in the middle of class. My eyes watered and I was sniffling quietly, trying to pass it off as if I had a cold. Then the bear in the animation came down and said those simple words. Even though those words came from a random video and wasn't directed towards me, it pushed my to finally talk to my family and friends because I desperately needed someone to connect with and someone to talk to. Anyways random story and kinda depressing but just wanted to say thank to this video and its animators for making me realize that I need help and to find someone to talk to.
The RSA (7 месяцев назад)
We're so happy to hear that our animation has in some way helped you, and we're glad to hear you have opened up to your family and friends - never feel alone x
singalinda (8 месяцев назад)
Andrew Millar (8 месяцев назад)
She is doing a disservice to the concept or experience of sympathy by confusing it with bad empathy and contrasting it with good empathy.
Isabel Moczo (8 месяцев назад)
I like this very much, will be using it in my trainings
Patrycja Kubicz (8 месяцев назад)
I am so happy that I've watched this video. All my life I've been thinking completly backword. I've always thought that I"m useless becouse I never comfort people who confide in me. I was listening, feeling their pain and trying to show them that they are not alone. I've never seen the point in coming up with "bright" side. Now I know that I may was more helpful than I thought. 😊
SWAGGYY M (8 месяцев назад)
This video sucks
傅昭瑜 (9 месяцев назад)
hi there, I am a teacher, I just found this video is suitable for my teaching in class, and I am planning to write a teaching plan and join the teaching plan contest, I wonder if you could admit the authorization, and I will indicate the source clearly. Thanks for your help have a nice day
Grifimus (9 месяцев назад)
The art style reminds me of Bob's Burgers.
Queen Black (9 месяцев назад)
This was really good. Gratitude.
Sam Blanc (9 месяцев назад)
I agree empathy is incredibly important--be the bear. But also...like...that's not what sympathy means? Like, the moose wasn't sympathetic; he was just kind of an asshole...
Ad Hoc (9 месяцев назад)
I have watched this so many times and have shown it to so many people. I wish everyone in the world would watch it.
schwickmtwice (9 месяцев назад)
This video is absolutely awful and literally wrong. She doesn't even know the definition of sympathy. It's feeling pity or sorrow for someone else's misfortune. Empathy is being able to feel or understand what the person is going through because YOU have gone through the same thing. Sympathy is trying to understand because you haven't been in that situation before. The "sympathy" in this video is called being an asshole. Whoever this person is needs to actually learn what sympathy is because she has absolutely no grasp.
Peralon (9 месяцев назад)
"I know what it's like down here, and you're not alone". Perhaps the most important phrase in this video, and the Greek translator decided to omit it. Because he can.

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