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Own Your Behaviours, Master Your Communication, Determine Your Success | Louise Evans | TEDxGenova

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This speech is a call to action. We spend about eighty percent of our day at work, the rest is at home. If we have a bad day at work we are likely to take that negativity home with us and vice versa. It is of paramount importance that we create healthy environments in the spaces that most affect our lives by giving of our best and receiving the like in return. The 5 Chairs is a powerful and systematic method which helps us master our own behaviours and manage the behaviours of others. To be a good leader is to contribute to the success and happiness of everyone, at work and at home, on a conscious level. The 5 Chairs offer 5 Choices. Which will you choose? Behavioral Coach, Corporate Trainer, Author of ‘5 Chairs 5 Choices’. Louise Evans heads up her own organization in Florence, Italy from which she offers international leadership development, cross-cultural transitional coaching and personal development programmes for individuals and teams working in international contexts. She is English but has lived and worked in Germany, France and for the last 30 years in Italy. Three things have always been important in her life - people, travel and the performing arts - all three of which she combines in her daily work. Having travelled to seven-five countries and experienced culture shock three times, Louise brings multiple perspectives to the present moment to help people connect across their differences. Louise believes deeply in people’s ability to grow and transform. What she values most is helping people strengthen their self-awareness and their understanding of others so that they bring their best selves into the world in every situation. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
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Текстовые комментарии (596)
Juddy Murgor (9 часов назад)
I am enlightened. Thank you so much.
Dinkar J (4 дня назад)
Absolutely fantastic presentation
Ralf Baars (11 дней назад)
What a great and very helpful speech. Perfect presentation with the chairs for me. I understood at once. It said more to me than 200 pages books. Thank you very much Louis !
somi A (13 дней назад)
one of the best ted talks i have got the chance to watch!!! i love the way she talks and deliver exactly the meaning im very immpresed at the moment i need more time to digest this and use it in my life practically ..thank u
Rajalakshmi K (13 дней назад)
Excellent talk! Thanks!
Azri Zainal (15 дней назад)
Nice .... Thank you
TheHolyEclipse (18 дней назад)
If I make a mistake I would prefer that my daughter or son to corrected me. At least she has the ability to tell the truth regardless of what people think.
Donna Johnson (18 дней назад)
wow this was very incredible,,,, thank you
Zuhur Samriye (19 дней назад)
Louise you're so we'll spoken and collected. I loved this so much ❤
Isaac Ohene-Agyei (21 день назад)
Thank you Louise. This was very insightful. I enjoyed every bit of it.
blackdaffodils (22 дня назад)
My personality is based on the red chair because I have generalised and social anxiety thank you louise this was amazingly satisfying and soulful.
Helene Mermelstein (23 дня назад)
Great use this at work, and home, but always need the reminder
seeker (24 дня назад)
You are a BRILLIANT speaker!!! Had my attention from start to finish! Great voice and intonation!
seeker (24 дня назад)
Great support! THANK YOU!!!!
Glenn Ven (24 дня назад)
cn anyone comment down d 5 names of the animals used by luise.. thanku
Ken Barbie (25 дней назад)
This is as genious as it is simple.
Sahir Faiz (26 дней назад)
Hi, this is a very good talk, there should be an app to put it into practice? ?
Sahir Faiz (26 дней назад)
Thanks
Baffour edmund awuah (27 дней назад)
Wooooow indeed this is really illuminating. One of the best and concise messages I have heard . Thank u
Sarika Risbud (27 дней назад)
Brilliant Mam !!!👏👏👏
Puneet Kansal (28 дней назад)
Wonderful talk.
Sanaa Hamid (1 месяц назад)
I am really what I leasing it amazing
Michelle Renee (1 месяц назад)
SO FANTASTIC! 💜
Balqees Mohamed (1 месяц назад)
Louise your talk is very true. Thank you it really helped me
Rohit Goswami (1 месяц назад)
From earth
Rohit Goswami (1 месяц назад)
Dear take care God bless u sweetheart ...Rohit Goswami Delhi
Wesley Khaw (1 месяц назад)
Enjoyed every minute of this very intriguing presentation. I can imagine how powerful it can be to determine long term sustainable success in life. I will bring these 5 chairs wherever I go now... Marvelous delivery ... Bravo Louise!!
Tooba Aftab Ahmed (1 месяц назад)
The best Ted Talk I've ever listened to. Thank you very much.
Souhir Chouikha (1 месяц назад)
love the giraffe's chair
Sharyn Young (1 месяц назад)
Brilliant speech, thank you for your wisdom and sharing such a common every day concern that the majority of us find our selves in. I now know without doubt which chairs I would prefer to be sitting in and indeed intend to practice this each and every day for the rest 0f my years blessing to you 🙏🏻
Ashtika Kothari (1 месяц назад)
Beautifully said.. amazing..
Lesley EL ALAMI (1 месяц назад)
Does anyone know the introduction track details please?
Mellinah Madza (1 месяц назад)
Lesley EL ALAMI the song that plays during the TED intro is playing right?
Mellinah Madza (1 месяц назад)
Lesley EL ALAMI Fade by Alan walker
Icy Li (1 месяц назад)
Hi Louise, Icy here, I am Chinese and currently working in Singapore, your talk just cheered me up when I was sick, I always wanted to be a well communicated person however I was always too straight to make others happy, and I sit in all those 5 chairs not only one. Now I learnt how to train myself, and I will share with my friends, too. Have a nice day every day. 😊
Nichola Richards (1 месяц назад)
A brilliant talk
Nazira Yaacob (1 месяц назад)
This is a very well thought principle, even the choice of animal is very much related to each personality. And it DOES define the diversity of human being in their sense of response and reaction to other human being
suchi sheth (1 месяц назад)
What an explanation|! Superb
Michele Upshaw (1 месяц назад)
Awesome talk!!!
villapoggiodigaville (1 месяц назад)
This is Louise thanking you all
villapoggiodigaville (1 месяц назад)
Thankyou all so much for your encouraging comments. They fill me with joy and a sense of deep purpose
never mind (1 месяц назад)
So I'm sitting on a gray chair does it mean I'm sad and old.Yea I'm about to say my last goodbye
Zi Neb (1 месяц назад)
You are AMAZING, Louise! Thank you so much for sharing these thoughts. Would love to learn more from you :)
Amazing. Very weel-said. Thanks!
Sabine Metz (1 месяц назад)
Thank you for being such a great passionate and technique speaker. I really enjoy it
Meenal Jumaanii (2 месяца назад)
Plainly superb....God bless and love from India❤️
Aadil Bhat (2 месяца назад)
Learn so much from u..will definently adapt something in my life... Thank you
Lunghani conny Shivuri (2 месяца назад)
I came across this the moment i had a heated argument with my husband and i was so angry i wanted to confront him...but this really helped me to view the argument in a different way.. and when i finally talked to him i understood his point of view and we forgave each other❤ thank you For this
G (2 месяца назад)
Love, love, love
KanD Johnson (2 месяца назад)
Annoying music
The Niknuks (2 месяца назад)
Loved every second of this video ♡
Helis Poerbo (2 месяца назад)
I usually listen to TED talks before starting my day... and this talk is AMAZING! Like you said Louise, BIG LESSON! Thank you for sharing it.
Kapansa Lengwe (2 месяца назад)
Fantastic!
Jua Jin 진주아 (2 месяца назад)
I love the way she speaks
Khin ma ma Han (2 месяца назад)
Wow this is brilliant! really love your presentation :)
Clare pover (2 месяца назад)
This has super content. well presented. The chairs, the animals and the quotes especially the last stay in the mind. easily shared.
Ojaiheather (2 месяца назад)
Thank You for this. I needed to hear this today.
pauldisha12 (2 месяца назад)
Excellent presentation. Very inspirational
Anuj Kumar Sharma (2 месяца назад)
Everyone should watch this Most importantly everyone should implement it in there life I'm also going to try this Thank you for providing such an incredible and precious thought.
Anuj Kumar Sharma (2 месяца назад)
One of the greatest talks
Andreea Sferlea (2 месяца назад)
Louise, you are absolutely amazing!!!!! I REALLY received your message. Thank you and all the best for you!!!! xoxoxo
Veronica Williams (2 месяца назад)
This presentation was absolutely awesome n well delivered...  self control, self awareness of ones behavior is an essential piece in order to become a better person; especially when it comes to leadership of others.
Carol Browning (2 месяца назад)
When another's words, and actions too feel hurtful, even blaming and critical, it is difficult to know how to respond, and at times we need that pause to reflect on the situation. I personally resonate with the "energies under stress" that Donna Eden and David Feinstein teach, for they learned in their marriage how truly different their lenses are-she is tonal and deeply kinesthetic, and he is digital and visual; until they learned to honor their differences and respect core differences Donna felt unheard and judged harshly by David's style, and so they created a method to STOP, each learn to ground her/himself, then come back with an apology when that was appropriate, and they have energy routines they share daily with one another. They knew the communication styles you describe here, but it wasn't enough to handle their energetic differences that they learned in writing a book for couples in relationships, and now they teach all over the world. Creating healthy environments is crucial to really be able to hear and appreciate our different ways of perceiving reality.
Ebby C (2 месяца назад)
I have never felt so grateful, for finding a TED talk.
Edo Language Institute (2 месяца назад)
I've been watching TED Talks since about a decade now but this one here has the most profound effect on me. Thank you! I cannot thank you enough.
Vida Kom-Teye (2 месяца назад)
Powerful talk
Thuy-Hong Nguyen (2 месяца назад)
Thank you for such beautiful wisdom Ms. Louise Evans! I am going to watch at least few more times in order to appreciate her lesson!
Caleb B (2 месяца назад)
Much obliged, Ms. Evans.
Tere Castro-Saldana (2 месяца назад)
THIS WAS GREAT!!!
Paula Felix (2 месяца назад)
Excellent!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3 :) Grateful!!!!
Yordanos Teklu (2 месяца назад)
Wowwwww...amazing messages ,tnx 💕💕💕💖💕💕💕💕👑
Violette Wambua (2 месяца назад)
This talk spoke to me 💯💯 Thanks so much 😊😊 You delivered a bold message, so simply and eloquently.
Dhandapani Mahadevan (2 месяца назад)
A good presentation and well shared thoughts. The story with your daughter was really an ongoing one in many of our age people. Hopefully trained up to sit on a green chair...Still long way to go for reaching the blues......
Efhiya (2 месяца назад)
Wow! One of the best TED talks and I would watch it repeatedly. Could have been a long topic so orderly summarise and presented. When i filter the talk I find no junk at all. Really not a single word.
Kuljeet Takhar (2 месяца назад)
Best ted talk !
SARTHAK MOHAPATRA (2 месяца назад)
1. Attack, misbehave,blame,complian,gossip, punish,judge. 2. vulnerable, judge ourselves, low self esteem, feeling of rejection, self doubt , fear of failing and disappointment, feeling of a victim like no body cares or loves me 3. Being vigilant, being mindfull, observant,we stop, pause, wait and be conscious and WAIT (What Am I Thinking ). Observe the person and wonder why is she behaving in such a way 4. Detect our own behaviour, being self aware, we know who we r, we know what we want, we know where we r going, we r not afraid to speak our truth but we know our boundaries, we r powerfull, here we grow we r free and become our full power,we become assertive but not aggressive. At no1 we lose our power 5. Display of empathy, compassion,understanding, putting our egos in the back seat, listen to people and care for them, embrace other reality, other perspective, other diversity, being tolerant and what is important for the person sitting before us and to stay connected
Saerin Kwon (2 месяца назад)
Such a thoughtful presentation. 😊 I just clicked this by 'accident', well it turns out a blessing accident.
Jacqueline Azadi (2 месяца назад)
Wow! I will definitely be taking these chairs home with me. I can see myself in each one of these chairs, including the red one, which I typically do not verbalize but my non-poker face can't lie. I spend a lot of time observing and thinking before speaking. Connect was my main strength in Strength Finders survey. Lately, I have been challenged to see the other point of view, especially in the US and our very polarized political landscape. It has been a source of sadness for me and it is affecting my mood and life. I will try the purple chair, but sometimes I think that I need the purple pill.
AfroKito Boho Artist (2 месяца назад)
This talk provided excellent lessons. Yet......Who else thought that those rainbow colored chairs were to open a discussion of LGBTQ? I did.
villapoggiodigaville (1 день назад)
They are in fact the colors of the shakras :-)
Pinky Alfred (2 месяца назад)
Amazing !!
Nhanh Dương (2 месяца назад)
She is the one I really love. Thank you so much for your sharing. Best wishes from me ( Viet Nam )
Dan Bee LEE (2 месяца назад)
Thank you so much, Louise Evans..so Inspirational!!
Empress McEwan (2 месяца назад)
This was a really good presentation
ibrahima diallo (2 месяца назад)
Great speech I very like it, but the evolution of human and its interactions change our behavior toward our life. This kind of behavior some people had it 100 years ago.
Annie Brown Simon (2 месяца назад)
What if the others attitude is uncaring, so hard to understand?
Ma Balogun Balogun (2 месяца назад)
Very great life changing presentation.
Issabela B.G. (2 месяца назад)
Hermosa presentación, de como re-aprender a comunicarnos "sin violencia", de verdad agradezco el enriquecimiento que haces de los conceptos de Marshall, Felicidades!!!
lovingGod KeepingReal (3 месяца назад)
Wow. Fantastic. I am enlightened me wooo
Ellen (3 месяца назад)
This was so amazing. I needed to hear this. I feel like I knew this deep down just needed to hear it again
Liza Gobrin (3 месяца назад)
I have watched it again...Superb! You were so amazing and witty speaker. :-) One of the best speakers I have heard!
Liza Gobrin (3 месяца назад)
It's very encouraging topic of how to teach people not to be judgemental. One of the best TED shows I've ever watched! Thank you for inspiring me more to do the right thing. I will always remember these 5 chairs everytime I am in an uncontrolling circumstances.
Sourav Singh (3 месяца назад)
Great job!!..louise...i am also studying about beahviours...but this is the best example ,I could ever find...for me...u help me in a very good way because..i am learning state control and...the problem is that .i forget to control..and just go with the flow(old beahviour pattern and thinking) but now ....whenever oppurtunity comes....i just go in my mind...say...on WHICH CHAIR I SHOULD BE FOR THIS PERSON TO DO WHAT I WANT THEM TO DO...AND IS GOOD FOR THEM....THANKYOU...
Mrs Natoya whyte (3 месяца назад)
I literally like the explanation of this effect using the chair as the after affect of a person life turn out marriage career people ect I like the brother suiation
Cabrina Sulimay (3 месяца назад)
Fantastic
Shruti (3 месяца назад)
Thank you, Louise, for this presentation along with each of those quotes. I still struggle with them each day yet every day is better than the previous day. Hoping to set up one of these in my house and gift it to people as well.
Rabia Akbar (3 месяца назад)
WOW
Joseph Nyamwange (3 месяца назад)
Fantastic. Deals with a complex subject so seamlessly while weaving in philosophical themes. I shall borrow these five chairs the next time I am sliding down the ladder of inference.
Paul Westbury (3 месяца назад)
This is exactly what I needed. amazing presentation. Everything is well executed and I love the chakra symbolism along with some of my favorite mentors. I'll be sitting with the giraffe, dolphin, and meerkat :P
Aqeel Aamir (3 месяца назад)
Hi from Pakistan, thanks a lot for the talk. I am continuously being blessed by such talks and developing my skills in communication.
Muhammad Aasif Nazir (3 месяца назад)
Astonishing! She has stupendous wisdom! One of the best TED talks. Thank you so such a captivating presentation! ❤
Sush Basak (3 месяца назад)
One of the best TED Talk videos. WOW!!
Emmy Moloto (3 месяца назад)
Amazing talk! Thank you! I also stood in ovation from my work desk. Keep it coming :)
Sunny George (3 месяца назад)
An eye opening speech

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