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Own Your Behaviours, Master Your Communication, Determine Your Success | Louise Evans | TEDxGenova

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This speech is a call to action. We spend about eighty percent of our day at work, the rest is at home. If we have a bad day at work we are likely to take that negativity home with us and vice versa. It is of paramount importance that we create healthy environments in the spaces that most affect our lives by giving of our best and receiving the like in return. The 5 Chairs is a powerful and systematic method which helps us master our own behaviours and manage the behaviours of others. To be a good leader is to contribute to the success and happiness of everyone, at work and at home, on a conscious level. The 5 Chairs offer 5 Choices. Which will you choose? Behavioral Coach, Corporate Trainer, Author of ‘5 Chairs 5 Choices’. Louise Evans heads up her own organization in Florence, Italy from which she offers international leadership development, cross-cultural transitional coaching and personal development programmes for individuals and teams working in international contexts. She is English but has lived and worked in Germany, France and for the last 30 years in Italy. Three things have always been important in her life - people, travel and the performing arts - all three of which she combines in her daily work. Having travelled to seven-five countries and experienced culture shock three times, Louise brings multiple perspectives to the present moment to help people connect across their differences. Louise believes deeply in people’s ability to grow and transform. What she values most is helping people strengthen their self-awareness and their understanding of others so that they bring their best selves into the world in every situation. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
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Текстовые комментарии (539)
Aadil Bhat (19 часов назад)
Learn so much from u..will definently adapt something in my life... Thank you
Lunghani conny Shivuri (1 день назад)
I came across this the moment i had a heated argument with my husband and i was so angry i wanted to confront him...but this really helped me to view the argument in a different way.. and when i finally talked to him i understood his point of view and we forgave each other❤ thank you For this
G (2 дня назад)
Love, love, love
KanD Johnson (2 дня назад)
Annoying music
The Niknuks (4 дня назад)
Loved every second of this video ♡
Helis Poerbo (5 дней назад)
I usually listen to TED talks before starting my day... and this talk is AMAZING! Like you said Louise, BIG LESSON! Thank you for sharing it.
Kapansa Lengwe (5 дней назад)
Fantastic!
Jua Jin 진주아 (5 дней назад)
I love the way she speaks
Khin ma ma Han (6 дней назад)
Wow this is brilliant! really love your presentation :)
Clare pover (6 дней назад)
This has super content. well presented. The chairs, the animals and the quotes especially the last stay in the mind. easily shared.
Ojaiheather (7 дней назад)
Thank You for this. I needed to hear this today.
pauldisha12 (8 дней назад)
Excellent presentation. Very inspirational
Anuj Kumar Sharma (8 дней назад)
Everyone should watch this Most importantly everyone should implement it in there life I'm also going to try this Thank you for providing such an incredible and precious thought.
Anuj Kumar Sharma (8 дней назад)
One of the greatest talks
Andreea Sferlea (8 дней назад)
Louise, you are absolutely amazing!!!!! I REALLY received your message. Thank you and all the best for you!!!! xoxoxo
Veronica Williams (9 дней назад)
This presentation was absolutely awesome n well delivered...  self control, self awareness of ones behavior is an essential piece in order to become a better person; especially when it comes to leadership of others.
Carol Browning (10 дней назад)
When another's words, and actions too feel hurtful, even blaming and critical, it is difficult to know how to respond, and at times we need that pause to reflect on the situation. I personally resonate with the "energies under stress" that Donna Eden and David Feinstein teach, for they learned in their marriage how truly different their lenses are-she is tonal and deeply kinesthetic, and he is digital and visual; until they learned to honor their differences and respect core differences Donna felt unheard and judged harshly by David's style, and so they created a method to STOP, each learn to ground her/himself, then come back with an apology when that was appropriate, and they have energy routines they share daily with one another. They knew the communication styles you describe here, but it wasn't enough to handle their energetic differences that they learned in writing a book for couples in relationships, and now they teach all over the world. Creating healthy environments is crucial to really be able to hear and appreciate our different ways of perceiving reality.
Ebby C (10 дней назад)
I have never felt so grateful, for finding a TED talk.
Edo Language Institute (10 дней назад)
I've been watching TED Talks since about a decade now but this one here has the most profound effect on me. Thank you! I cannot thank you enough.
Vida Kom-Teye (12 дней назад)
Powerful talk
Thuy-Hong Nguyen (13 дней назад)
Thank you for such beautiful wisdom Ms. Louise Evans! I am going to watch at least few more times in order to appreciate her lesson!
Caleb B (13 дней назад)
Much obliged, Ms. Evans.
Tere Castro-Saldana (13 дней назад)
THIS WAS GREAT!!!
Paula Felix (13 дней назад)
Excellent!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3 :) Grateful!!!!
Yordanos Teklu (13 дней назад)
Wowwwww...amazing messages ,tnx 💕💕💕💖💕💕💕💕👑
Violette Wambua (13 дней назад)
This talk spoke to me 💯💯 Thanks so much 😊😊 You delivered a bold message, so simply and eloquently.
Dhandapani Mahadevan (14 дней назад)
A good presentation and well shared thoughts. The story with your daughter was really an ongoing one in many of our age people. Hopefully trained up to sit on a green chair...Still long way to go for reaching the blues......
Efhiya (14 дней назад)
Wow! One of the best TED talks and I would watch it repeatedly. Could have been a long topic so orderly summarise and presented. When i filter the talk I find no junk at all. Really not a single word.
Kuljeet Takhar (15 дней назад)
Best ted talk !
SARTHAK MOHAPATRA (15 дней назад)
1. Attack, misbehave,blame,complian,gossip, punish,judge. 2. vulnerable, judge ourselves, low self esteem, feeling of rejection, self doubt , fear of failing and disappointment, feeling of a victim like no body cares or loves me 3. Being vigilant, being mindfull, observant,we stop, pause, wait and be conscious and WAIT (What Am I Thinking ). Observe the person and wonder why is she behaving in such a way 4. Detect our own behaviour, being self aware, we know who we r, we know what we want, we know where we r going, we r not afraid to speak our truth but we know our boundaries, we r powerfull, here we grow we r free and become our full power,we become assertive but not aggressive. At no1 we lose our power 5. Display of empathy, compassion,understanding, putting our egos in the back seat, listen to people and care for them, embrace other reality, other perspective, other diversity, being tolerant and what is important for the person sitting before us and to stay connected
Saerin Kwon (18 дней назад)
Such a thoughtful presentation. 😊 I just clicked this by 'accident', well it turns out a blessing accident.
Jacqueline Azadi (19 дней назад)
Wow! I will definitely be taking these chairs home with me. I can see myself in each one of these chairs, including the red one, which I typically do not verbalize but my non-poker face can't lie. I spend a lot of time observing and thinking before speaking. Connect was my main strength in Strength Finders survey. Lately, I have been challenged to see the other point of view, especially in the US and our very polarized political landscape. It has been a source of sadness for me and it is affecting my mood and life. I will try the purple chair, but sometimes I think that I need the purple pill.
AfroKito Boho Artist (19 дней назад)
This talk provided excellent lessons. Yet......Who else thought that those rainbow colored chairs were to open a discussion of LGBTQ? I did.
Pinky Alfred (19 дней назад)
Amazing !!
Nhanh Dương (21 день назад)
She is the one I really love. Thank you so much for your sharing. Best wishes from me ( Viet Nam )
Dan Bee LEE (21 день назад)
Thank you so much, Louise Evans..so Inspirational!!
Empress McEwan (21 день назад)
This was a really good presentation
ibrahima diallo (22 дня назад)
Great speech I very like it, but the evolution of human and its interactions change our behavior toward our life. This kind of behavior some people had it 100 years ago.
Annie Brown Simon (23 дня назад)
What if the others attitude is uncaring, so hard to understand?
Ma Balogun Balogun (25 дней назад)
Very great life changing presentation.
Issabela B.G. (26 дней назад)
Hermosa presentación, de como re-aprender a comunicarnos "sin violencia", de verdad agradezco el enriquecimiento que haces de los conceptos de Marshall, Felicidades!!!
lovingGod KeepingReal (27 дней назад)
Wow. Fantastic. I am enlightened me wooo
Ellen (29 дней назад)
This was so amazing. I needed to hear this. I feel like I knew this deep down just needed to hear it again
Liza Gobrin (1 месяц назад)
I have watched it again...Superb! You were so amazing and witty speaker. :-) One of the best speakers I have heard!
Liza Gobrin (1 месяц назад)
It's very encouraging topic of how to teach people not to be judgemental. One of the best TED shows I've ever watched! Thank you for inspiring me more to do the right thing. I will always remember these 5 chairs everytime I am in an uncontrolling circumstances.
Sourav Singh (1 месяц назад)
Great job!!..louise...i am also studying about beahviours...but this is the best example ,I could ever find...for me...u help me in a very good way because..i am learning state control and...the problem is that .i forget to control..and just go with the flow(old beahviour pattern and thinking) but now ....whenever oppurtunity comes....i just go in my mind...say...on WHICH CHAIR I SHOULD BE FOR THIS PERSON TO DO WHAT I WANT THEM TO DO...AND IS GOOD FOR THEM....THANKYOU...
Mrs Natoya whyte (1 месяц назад)
I literally like the explanation of this effect using the chair as the after affect of a person life turn out marriage career people ect I like the brother suiation
Cabrina Sulimay (1 месяц назад)
Fantastic
Shruti (1 месяц назад)
Thank you, Louise, for this presentation along with each of those quotes. I still struggle with them each day yet every day is better than the previous day. Hoping to set up one of these in my house and gift it to people as well.
Rabia Akbar (1 месяц назад)
WOW
Joseph Nyamwange (1 месяц назад)
Fantastic. Deals with a complex subject so seamlessly while weaving in philosophical themes. I shall borrow these five chairs the next time I am sliding down the ladder of inference.
Paul Westbury (1 месяц назад)
This is exactly what I needed. amazing presentation. Everything is well executed and I love the chakra symbolism along with some of my favorite mentors. I'll be sitting with the giraffe, dolphin, and meerkat :P
Aqeel Aamir (1 месяц назад)
Hi from Pakistan, thanks a lot for the talk. I am continuously being blessed by such talks and developing my skills in communication.
Muhammad Aasif Nazir (1 месяц назад)
Astonishing! She has stupendous wisdom! One of the best TED talks. Thank you so such a captivating presentation! ❤
Sush Basak (1 месяц назад)
One of the best TED Talk videos. WOW!!
Emmy Moloto (1 месяц назад)
Amazing talk! Thank you! I also stood in ovation from my work desk. Keep it coming :)
Sunny George (1 месяц назад)
An eye opening speech
Nahla Ahmed (1 месяц назад)
The most powerful presentation ,, I was need it ..thanks Louise 🌹
sissy j Williams (1 месяц назад)
Thank you. I have much to share with my husband and daughter. Hopefully they'll listen. Hopefully I'll be able to apply these thoughts when communicating with them and others. This should be taught in high schools.
Marie M (1 месяц назад)
Jeremiah 17:5 This is what the LORD says: "Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who draws strength from mere flesh and whose heart turns away from the LORD.
Aisha Ahmed (1 месяц назад)
It is a human tendency to draw a conclusion based on the perception we have in what we see, but in actuality it could be something that is totally different/opposite.
William Corcoran (1 месяц назад)
Don’t take it personally. Master Covey’s seven habits plus one. I am OK. You’re OK.
Mihaela IGNATESCU (1 месяц назад)
Extraordinary speech; all this we can do thinking before we take a decision; it is very important to have our emotions under control, and to make a pause, before to speak.I observed the word fly, and we can hurt somebody. We feel guilty, and the others frustrated.
Mary Raouf (1 месяц назад)
Priceless words and an amazing speaker
Tessa Canzona (1 месяц назад)
Wow! This was great, thank you 🙏
Laura C. (1 месяц назад)
Surely one of my favourites. I'll save it!
nbjannie (1 месяц назад)
Hi Louise, I loved watching this video. I usually don't comment on any videos, but this is too good. I often sit on all different kind of chairs at different situations. I never used to judge people as a child or a teenager until I turned 25. During those periods, I ended up in lot of troubles to find good relationships as I never judged and I saw them as just individuals. And it was very easy for anyone to cheat me in terms of finances or promises. After these bitter experiences, I became very judgmental when it comes to getting into relationships with people. As a result, I ended up having no friends at all... I always focused doing the right thing at all times, which I realize now might have taken away a lot of my energy and time. As you mentioned in your video, I used to do the same with my mum.. But now I realize that there is a thin line between being able to understand people and judge people
Christine Leichtfried (1 месяц назад)
what a great idea to put up those chairs. thank you.
Ranjitha M (1 месяц назад)
Good presentation.....niceeee ty
Brhtu Seasonone (1 месяц назад)
i have a question..people. as they grow commits mistakes...and u develop n learn to handle things in each n every experiences u passby ..and one's defense that is being enhanced is judgement...how can i separate judgment on things or people beforehand as my guard on my future actions so i wont be fooled or heartbroken ???pls enlighten me..fb messenger : starpinkalu brhtu..............dp: my kiddo
Cierra Olives (1 месяц назад)
I’ve never heard such an enthusiastic and booming applause after a presentation. She was brilliant and compelling.
Derbie Ayalew (1 месяц назад)
Very nice and life time lesson.
Marpre Arnold (1 месяц назад)
Beautiful!
Matt Akers (1 месяц назад)
Hi Louise, I just stumbled across your talk and thought it was brilliant, I was wondering if I could share it and mention your talk in a presentation I am giving in a few weeks? Keep up the great work. Matt
Debora Nestal (1 месяц назад)
Five chairs, five choices. Her speech is absolutely brilliant. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
new waves (2 месяца назад)
most amazing video I've ever watched hands down
thelaurels13 (2 месяца назад)
This is brilliant. I will definitely try and implement this in not only my personal life, but professional life too. Thank you.
Dwaraka Tupurani (2 месяца назад)
I loved the contribution of NVC. Brilliant!
Osama Ahmed (2 месяца назад)
Is louis has a YouTube channel? Please I want follow her channel
DURVESH SHARMA (2 месяца назад)
Incredible speech 🗨
Tza Oriana (2 месяца назад)
I have a russian friend. I hope you hv this in russian text so i can send it to her
Maheshwari Arti (2 месяца назад)
awesome talk ever❤❤
VICTOR RELENTLESS (2 месяца назад)
I like wait and detect chair because compassion always don't work
Melanie Mellish (2 месяца назад)
This is probably one of my all time favourite ted talks, amazing lady
Lesley Witt (2 месяца назад)
Priceless!
pa Saephan (2 месяца назад)
love the title!
Catherine Quarterfox (2 месяца назад)
Loved this, so well put together and thought out.
许彦超 (2 месяца назад)
I don't know how to describe what a good talk,I just say so good,good!(from China)
Amelia Sophia (2 месяца назад)
if the chairs were exam checkpoints, i would perhaps got D
Nixon Lobo (2 месяца назад)
Very much helpful for learning right communication and practicing right behaviour, thank you
Tomo Hristic (2 месяца назад)
Fantastic!!!
Hisami Futakuchi (2 месяца назад)
This is actually very practical and easy to apply for very common but valuable life. From now on, I put 5 colors of chair and CHOOSE my life. Thank you.
Trinity Yoga Therapy (2 месяца назад)
Curious to know if you have curriculum for classrooms (K and up)? This is something that all ages need to learn (and unlearn communication styles that divides instead of brings people together). Thank you for a beautiful and clear presentation of your work!
Mazie Rego (2 месяца назад)
Awesome.. God bless you for sharing positive vibes ☺️
ayse yurtsever (2 месяца назад)
It’s also good to know that every one of us as human beings in some point struggles and don’t know how to behave. Thank you for making us understand that trying to get to know before judging other people is crucial for healthy relationships
ayse yurtsever (2 месяца назад)
I needed this talk , I hope I learned my lessons to change my point of view to be a better person. Thank you for this wonderful speech👏👏👏
Sara Mccarthy (2 месяца назад)
👏👏👏👏
Sara Mccarthy (2 месяца назад)
Really amazing
narimane me (2 месяца назад)
Waw! that is exactly what an incredibly beautiful, successful, meaningful, rich, simple, effective and inspiring talk looks like. I loved it, learned a lot of things and burned it in my memory. Thank you very much!
jitender mehta (2 месяца назад)
Wonderful Thank You Mz. Louise for sharing.
Abha Trivedi (2 месяца назад)
This should be part of a mandatory training in every workplace.

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